The day I decided to change your life was a very difficult one. I knew that I had made a huge mistake, and there were many regrets that I held. But I also knew that there was something else I could do. I decided that it wasn’t enough just to sit back and take whatever abuse my heart gave me, I was going to make a change and improve it.
I started out very slow. I knew that this would be hard but I wanted to get started on the right foot and make a difference. I knew I wanted to make a difference in the life of others and that I wanted to be a catalyst for change. I knew that I was going to be angry and hurt, but I wanted to do something about it. I wanted to move forward and be a blessing to someone or something. So I kept moving.
But as the days went by I began to see that I had done so much and so little. I was not any closer to changing my life than I had been when I decided to quit smoking twenty years ago. So what did I do? I ran to my husband and told him I needed some help.
My husband was quite supportive and helped me with some advice on how to get started on the road to change. I learned a lot from him and he really became a big part of my life. But I was still not totally transformed. It took me nearly a year and a half to really change my whole outlook on life. To make a mistake and not to take the next step is really what changed my life.
To change the way you feel about yourself is a very important first step. It is not something you can do quickly, but it is definitely worth the time investment. After you make this decision you will find that you can approach any situation with more confidence and you will be happier overall. This means you will have more energy and optimism that are infectious. It is really remarkable how a small thing such as changing the way you think about yourself can affect the way you feel about the world and the people in it.
When I made this decision to change your mindset, I also changed my attitude about myself. That is why my life changed so dramatically over the next year. That is why my relationships changed too. I started to focus on being a wonderful partner and mother to my children and that is something that I had not ever really focused on before.
You may be thinking that I got my ex boyfriend back because I changed my attitude. That is not really true though. The biggest factor in getting my ex back was simply learning to be happy with who I am. That is not an easy thing to do but once I started doing it, my relationship got back to where it should be. Once I became happy with my change, I wanted to share what I had learned with others so they could begin to change as well.
You need to make changes in your life to become fulfilled and happy. You want to change your outlook on life. You want to change your attitude so you can be happy again.
The problem is that life often runs in reverse. We are given some direction by our parents and society. Then we get a big shock when we have to change and adapt to our lives. You have to be happy with yourself first before you are happy with your life.
It is hard to change your attitude when you think about what your life used to be. You have been led to believe certain things. Your world seems to be falling apart. If you look at the people around you, many of them are changing. They are no longer staying in the same place year after year.
What do you think life is going to be like after you change? I want you to have a desire to live differently. I want you to take the action necessary to change your life. You deserve happiness and that is the only way you are going to get it.
